Everybody has problems with Anger sometimes. Some more than others. I luckily am not one of those people. I myself don’t get angry unless it’s something really really bad. I’m just a fairly passive person. But still at times even I get angry.
When people get really angry they are generally not safe to be around. Some people get violent. Those certain people need to be taught a thing or too in anger management. If not for the welfare of others then for the welfare of themselves.
There are many ways to manage anger and stress. Some less healthy than others. I know a few people who find smoking and drinking ways to calm down. Which of course is not the best idea considering smoking isn’t good for you and drinking tends to make YOU feel better maybe but it often causes you to be more harmful to others.
The best way I can seem is to stop and think. Take deep breaths and think logically about the situation at hand. Think to yourself is it worth putting up this much of a fuss over? Is it worth the consequences that might follow? Most of the time when I think that I usually realize that it’s not as big a deal as i’m making it out to be. And I always follow by the rule No Regrets. If you think you may regret what happens after you do something then don’t do it! If you’ll regret it then it’s not worth it.
I myself have realized over the years that I don’t get angry not just because I don’t like confrontation but because I feel like it’s more energy than it is worth. It takes much more energy and causes way more stress to hate someone rather then be friends with them or ignore them. Anger just causes you to be stressed out and in return just makes you more prone to anger issues.
I just feel like if everyone where to just stop wasting energy on what other people are doing/not doing/doing wrong then less people would have anger issues. But alas that is not how the world works. There will always be people getting angry at other people and worrying about yelling at other people for what they are doing rather than worry about things that actually matter. Hopefully someday people will realize that being angry does not help any situation. Until then I hide in my corner and avoid the angry people. ^_^
Well I hope I did this blog right. It’s my first one over the monthly topics in WDD. Hopefully you enjoyed it!
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Kit <3
hello kit lol i like this cuz at the last part how its a wast of time and energy to get mad over i think that same way!!!!!! lol you know me